Yesterday I faced that most profound of modern ethical dilemmas: tipping.
I had my hair cut last night at my current favourite hairdressers; it's awesome just for the pneumatic chairs that lay you flat when you're having your hair washed, so you don't have the horrible basin digging into the back of your neck. At any rate, I received a lovely short, textured cut from a flamboyant Italian whom I'll call Paolo, and I liked his work enough to want to have him do my hair again. But, as usual, I had no cash whatsoever on me.
There is no circumstance more guaranteed to make me feel like an asocial clod than trying to gracefully negotiate the minefield that is giving someone "a bit extra". Restaurants are easy; a tip is pretty standard and you can just leave it on the table, or add it to the credit-card slip, and you can not tip without recourse if the service is bad. But hairdressers? Manicurists and beauty therapists, if you're into that sort of thing? Taxi drivers? Should I have tipped when I got my tattoo done? I just don't know. How much do you give? Should you generally give if you're happy, or should it be reserved for exceptional service? How do you give it - a magnanimous "Keep the change", or offer a handshake with a fiver clasped sweatily in your palm? What do you
say?
This happens to me every time I get my hair cut, and inevitably I have no cash whatsoever, or have a fiver but am too nervous to give it, and end up shifting from foot to foot and muttering that I'll be sure to come again. This time, I ended up paying for my cut, going across the road to the cashpoint, and shoving a note across the reception desk with a whispered, "JustwantedtoleavesomethingforPaolo". Smooth, eh?
Opinions, all? Do you tip your hairdressers?
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